Goodness

HH Shlomo Carlebach says in the name of Likutay Halachos (Even HuEzer), and this is one of his most self defining teachings...

The great accomplishment and victory Yosef achieved by not succumbing to the temptations of the wife of Potiphar, was that had he sinned he would not have managed to fully forgive his brothers.

When a person wants to withdraw etc. he should have great suspicion that this is a reaction of some wrongdoing. No one should suffer from one's quest to do good.

Na NaCh NaChMa NaChMaN MAyUMaN