Consent

HH

Yesterday I saw someone very excited in anticipation of Chanuka, he couldn't stop dancing. The joy for a mitzvah is an aspect of the Shechina. However, Saba said there is Gd forbid the concept of the date rape drug - gaining that Divine fervour and ecstasy by force, like by smoking weed. Sure, a person can get the desired effect, but it was rape...

A person has to entice the Shechina and gain consent.

May we merit with Na NaCh NaChMa NaChMaN MAyUMaN